Category: Clothing

I’ve been to probably thirty weddings over the past decade. Each one came with the same panicked question – what am I supposed to wear? The dress code says “cocktail attire” or “semi-formal” but what does that actually mean? Wedding guest dress codes feel like a secret language nobody bothers to translate. You don’t want […]

I used to think wedding guest dressing required embellishment – sequins, lace, ruffles, something to signal “special occasion.” Wore increasingly decorated dresses to weddings for years, always feeling slightly costume-y but not knowing another approach. Then I attended a wedding where a guest wore the most beautiful simple black column dress. Zero embellishment. Perfect fit. […]

I follow fashion trends closely enough to know what’s current but not so closely that I’m wearing runway looks to suburban weddings. That balance is tricky when you’re trying to look stylish without seeming like you’re trying too hard. Wedding guest fashion exists in this weird space between high fashion and traditional formality. Trends filter […]

I used to think wedding guest dresses meant one thing – fitted at top, flowy at bottom, hits right at the knee. Basically the same dress in seventeen different colors and prints. Safe, boring, forgettable. Then I attended a wedding where another guest wore this incredible asymmetric midi dress with an unexpected cutout. She looked […]

I’ve been to seventeen weddings in the last three years. Destination beach weddings, formal ballroom affairs, rustic barn receptions, and everything in between. Each invitation sparked the same panic – what do I wear that’s appropriate for the theme but still feels like me? Bought my first “safe” navy dress thinking it would work everywhere. […]

I’ve spent ridiculous money on wedding guest dresses I wore exactly once. $300 for a dress that sat in my closet forever because it was too specific to re-wear. Total waste. Wedding season hit hard three years ago – seven weddings in five months. Buying new dresses for each would’ve bankrupted me. That’s when I […]

Evening weddings are my favorite to dress for. Something about the lighting, the energy, and the permission to go dramatic with your outfit just works. But I’ve also bombed evening wedding style spectacularly. I wore a daytime floral to an evening black-tie event because I didn’t read the invitation carefully. Looked completely out of place […]

The invitation said “cocktail attire” and I panicked. What does that even mean? How cocktail is cocktail? Can I wear a long dress or is that too formal? Will I be overdressed or underdressed? I showed up to that wedding in a knee-length dress feeling confident until I walked in and saw half the guests […]

I’ve been to 23 weddings in the last eight years. Yes, I counted. And I’ve made every accessory mistake possible – over-accessorizing for daytime ceremonies, wearing shoes I couldn’t walk in, bringing the wrong bag. The dress is only half the equation. Get accessories wrong and a beautiful dress looks incomplete or overdone. Get them […]